dear momma cougar...
i recently got married. *yay* but...im thinking it was wrong. im scared. i havent told a SOUL and im worried that when he deploys in january...i wont survive. i do love him. but im scared. i dont want to leave him...im so conflicted. help.

Dear Anon,

I’m pretty sure you will survive….lets not exagerate here. My mother once told me the best relationship would be with someone who worked on an oil rig for 6 months e.g you have 6 months to do as you please and 6 months to put up with man.

You really don’t need to worry so hard.

Take Care.