“I think if we were in a relationship and we had an argument, you’d crucify me”

Hi "Mama Cougar".
Firstly, I'm 19 and I'm a male. I'm also "anonymous", for now.
I was put onto your blog by one of your loyal followers. I've had a read through your blog, and I have quite a few questions:

1 – So who was this “son of a bitch” that triggered the hostility towards males?
Yes, I’ll agree: there are a lot of asshole Males… but you don’t even give leeway to there being nice guys out there, you just dismiss the nice guys as being “needy”… which, really, isn’t a characteristic of a Nice Guy.

2 - How come you never post a photo of yourself? How do we know you're not some sex-and-the-city/gossip-girl crazed seventeen year old with a runaway imagination? And yes, I know, says the anonymous poster, right? Still… ?

3 – How would you feel if the roles were reversed, and you saw Male was writing about Females in the manner that you write about Males? For example, based on what you’ve said about males and applying the idea:
“I’m a middle aged male, I’m here to write about my experiences with dating. In my blogs I’ll explore:
- Why a woman that’s too skinny (or too fat) is useless,
- Why bailing on a Woman because she’s a lousy lay is the Right thing to do,
- Passive aggressive ways of punishing your girlfriend, including Laxatives in her food…
… and along the way I’ll advise younger Males that the best way to get over a girl is to put a dart board up with her photo, invite a few friends around and ‘spike the shit out of it with darts’.”
How’s that read to you? Sounds like a charmer to me.

4 – Statement first, then a question tying in with that: Try this.
On your post titled “Don’t Be Surprised If He Calls You ‘Mental’” you stated: “It’s what keeps him warm in bed when he is thinking about all the nasty shit he did to his ex… it allows him to hide behind the fact he was a total twat – no doubt.”

Let me begin by saying: My ex girlfriend was, and is, mental. I tell anyone who asks about her, verbatim: She was, and still is, Mental.
I initially thought it was great, I really liked her. We didn’t have sex, as she said she wanted to wait and “get to know each other more first”, which I respected. Our mutual friends told me she never stopped talking about me and had incredibly strong feelings for me – which at the time, made me feel great.
A bit over two months in, I was informed that she’d been having sex with five different guys all the while she was with me. She then pulled the: “I’m now on mood stabilizers because I can’t handle why he (me) doesn’t just let me sleep around and still be his one and only… /starts crying.” to our mutual friends.
Lemme repeat: She’s Mental. Not because I treated her badly and I’m compensating, not because I wasn’t seemingly making her happy, but because she wanted to lead on multiple males just to make herself feel good about number one.

Now, there’s the statement, here’s the question: In your opinion, judging from the story: is she “mental”? or is she just a girl doing what a girl Should do – which in turn, is: screw it up with someone who liked her for who she was… or, at least, who she pretended to be…