Sorry, where is it you are rubbing? Are you rubbing yourself or his cock shaft?
Personally I am a selfish lover and prefer a beta male who does all the work. If I find myself rubbing muself for any other reason than an itch, I know he ain’t working hard enough in the bedroom.
I am not surprised you are getting frustrated…this guy obviously doesn’t know how to get you off! By that I mean give you the horn and follow through.
Good luck!
Love,
Mamma Cougar