I'm constantly struggling to get myself into a relationship, only to have the girl fall in love with me. Then trying my hardest to get out because of commitment issues. What ends up happening is these girls get hung up on me and don't move on... I know this is all bad behavior but my desires weight a lot on my being so I find myself satisfying them all too often.

What can I do to send a clear message that I'm not interested in a serious relationship, or any relationship at all?

Christ Lad,

Do you need me to tell you how to do this? Its simple… you just say the minute you meet a bird “I’m NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP”

Then she will get it. If she is foreign, you may need a pocket translation guide otherwise, simple and job done.

No doubt you go around getting your jollys not making this ‘don’t want a relationship’ info clear to the girls you bone so no wonder they get ‘attached’ to you.

But seriously dude, sort it out.