Hey Mother Cougar!
First off, I love your blog. It's so refreshingly empowering to read after listening to lengthy, whining stories from girlfriends about men. It's just great.
Anyway, I've been dating this guy on and off for almost two years. He's been a royal douchebag in the past. He has been known in the past, for example, for breaking up with me to date another girl, only to cheat on her with me and get back together with me. I know I'm enabling him to be a bastard, which is very out of my character, but I was in love (gag...) and, well, the crux of it all is that we have mindblowingly good sex. In fact, I really just want to keep him around for the great sex. But I've always let him have the power in the past, and he'll switch from being a nice guy to a doucher depending on the week; one week he'll call me every night and tell me he loves me, and the next I won't get even a slight response out of him. I want the ball back in my court! How do I get the power back over him? Or should I just ignore the mindblowingly good sex and kick him to the curb and be on to the next one already? Thanks mama!
First off, I love your blog. It's so refreshingly empowering to read after listening to lengthy, whining stories from girlfriends about men. It's just great.
Anyway, I've been dating this guy on and off for almost two years. He's been a royal douchebag in the past. He has been known in the past, for example, for breaking up with me to date another girl, only to cheat on her with me and get back together with me. I know I'm enabling him to be a bastard, which is very out of my character, but I was in love (gag...) and, well, the crux of it all is that we have mindblowingly good sex. In fact, I really just want to keep him around for the great sex. But I've always let him have the power in the past, and he'll switch from being a nice guy to a doucher depending on the week; one week he'll call me every night and tell me he loves me, and the next I won't get even a slight response out of him. I want the ball back in my court! How do I get the power back over him? Or should I just ignore the mindblowingly good sex and kick him to the curb and be on to the next one already? Thanks mama!
OK Dear,
Firstly, all men have cocks and there are many out their that know how to use them and not just be one etc. By this I mean, just because you have mind blowing sex with them pleb doesn’t mean you should indulge in power games and try and ‘win’ over his douche like nature.
Men are like small children…they throw their toys out of their prams when they can’t get their own way and they can’t stand to be ignored.
I say, tell him to jog the fuck on and get yourself a new cock to ride about on.
Best of luck.
Mamma Coug
